A traumatic event is any event where an individual experiences actual or perceived threat to their life, body (such as physical injury or sexual harm) or personal integrity. These events can overwhelm their capacity to cope, and affect their ability to carry on with daily life as before. Examples of traumatic experiences include:
People may also be affected when they witness or learn that others, especially their caregivers or significant others, have become victims of traumatic events.
Find out more about the various types of potentially traumatic events an individual may experience.
An individual may experience changes in their feelings, thoughts, behaviours and bodily reactions immediately after going through a traumatic event. These include:
It is important to note that these reactions are normal responses to an abnormal situation and will usually subside after 4 to 6 weeks. If you (or your child) continue to experience significant distress beyond 4 to 6 weeks after the event, psychological intervention may be useful to help reduce these reactions. If the trauma reactions are left unattended, some individuals may develop conditions such as Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), mood or anxiety-related disorders.
Please note that a diagnosis of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) should only be determined by a trained mental health professional, after conducting a mental health assessment. You may refer to this website for the full diagnostic criteria.
For an individual to be diagnosed with PTSD, the individual must have had experienced a traumatic event, or witnessed a significant other (e.g. family member, friend) go through a traumatic event. After the event, the individual experiences some of these symptoms from each of these four categories:
These symptoms have to be present for more than 1 month after the event, and create distress or impact an individual’s daily activities (e.g. ability to go to school or work, relationship with others).
The online version of the Child Trauma Screening Questionnaire (CTSQ) developed by Dr. Justin Kenardy. It is suitable for use with children 7 to 16 years old and provides a quick screen of whether your child shows signs and symptoms of possible Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) after experiencing a traumatic event.
This screen does not replace an assessment by a mental health professional. Always seek professional help if you have concerns about your child’s coping after a traumatic event.
What are Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)?
Understanding ACES
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are stressful and potentially traumatic events that occur during childhood and adolescence (ages 0 to 18). These experiences can have profound and lasting effects on a child's development, health, and wellbeing throughout their life.
Types of ACEs
ACEs fall into several categories:
The Reality of ACEs
ACEs are unfortunately common. According to the 2016 Singapore Mental Health Study, which interviewed nearly 4,500 Singaporeans across all ages, 63.9% reported experiencing at least one ACE in their lifetime. The most common ACE was physical or emotional abuse or neglect, followed by familial and household difficulties.
Why ACEs Matter
ACEs are concerning because:
However, it is important to also understand that:
What Happens when ACEs are prolonged?
When exposure to ACEs is prolonged and occur particularly within a child's familial or caregiving context, it can have long-term consequences to the child's development. This is what we call complex trauma.
Understanding Complex Trauma
Complex trauma is different from other types of trauma because it often:
Prolonged and chronic trauma creates ongoing stress that changes how a child's brain and body develop. This can lead to difficulties that look like other conditions such as Attention Deficit and Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), autism, or behavioural disorders. There are seven domains of impairment that children exposed to such environments can be impacted in:
Attachment and Relationships
Early caregiving relationships are important because they provide the very first context within which children learn about themselves, their emotions, and their relationship with others. Through these early bonds, children develop a sense of safety in the world and an understanding of their own worth as a person. Children who have healthy attachment patterns with their caregivers tend to have greater capacity to develop effective self-soothing, communication, and relationship skills.
When these early relationships are unstable and unpredictable, a child’s ability to develop emotionally and form healthy attachments is affected. They may have trouble understanding their own emotions and managing them. They face difficulties developing communication skills needed to resolve conflict and interact effectively with others. Some children may be overly trusting, whilst others become deeply distrustful of everyone. They may also find it challenging to recognise that their words and actions can affect how other people feel, making social interactions difficult. These make it problematic for them in developing healthy and stable relationships with family members, romantic partners, friends, as well as authority figures.
Physical Health: Body and Brain
The development of the brain is incredibly sensitive to the environment a child grows up in. When children experience ongoing trauma, it affects their development in several ways:
Brain Development Changes: When children grow up in constantly frightening or stressful environments, their brain development is impacted. The brain prioritises survival, activating the fear centre of the brain (amygdala) more frequently, while connections between other parts of the brain like the areas responsible for learning, memory, and emotional control (the prefrontal cortex and hippocampus) may be reduced. This means these children often:
Stress Response System: Normally, when we face stress, our bodies release stress hormones to help us cope, then return to normal once the danger passes. For children with complex trauma histories, this system becomes stuck in "high alert" mode. Their bodies produce stress hormones constantly, which:
Body Awareness Issues: Many children with complex trauma struggle with understanding their body's signals. They might:
Emotional Responses
Children with complex trauma face unique challenges in understanding, expressing and managing their emotions. These difficulties may present as internalised behaviours such as isolating themselves from others, suppressing their emotions or inappropriately blaming themselves for the difficulties they are experiencing. Others may externalise these feelings and act out, be more physically aggressive, become defiant and engage in risky behaviours. Difficulties regulating emotions put children at risk of developing mental health difficulties such as depression, anxiety and issues with anger management later in life.
Additionally, they may also react strongly or intensely to cues in the environment that remind them of traumatic events and have difficulty calming down when affected by the reminder. As their trauma events are often interpersonal in nature, even slightly stressful interactions (e.g., disagreeing with someone, someone being angry at them) may trigger extreme emotional responses in them.
Behaviour
Children with a complex trauma history may be easily triggered or reminded of their trauma. Because they often struggle with emotional regulation and have trouble calming down, their reactions to stress and perceived threat or rejection can be volatile, intense, and appear unpredictable and extreme.
A child who grew up in an environment where they felt powerless or had lived in frequent fear of an abusive authority figure, may react defensively and aggressively in response to perceived blame or attack. Alternatively, they may at other times be very controlled, rigid and unusually compliant with adults or authority figures. Children who dissociate may appear as if they are daydreaming, not paying attention, or “spacing out”.
Other behaviours of children with a history of complex trauma include eating disorders, high-risk behaviours such as substance abuse, self-harm, unsafe sexual practices, or engaging in reckless, dangerous or illegal activities, like stealing, getting involved ingang fights.
To find out more about how a child’s behaviour may be affected because of prolonged trauma, navigate to the “Adverse Childhood Events and the Impact on Children” Tab under Trauma-Informed Care in Healthcare.
Cognition: Thinking and Learning
In view of the impact of prolonged trauma on the brain, children with trauma histories are at risk for language delays, reduced problem solving, planning and organisation skills. They may struggle with attention because their brains are constantly scanning for potential threats. Even in safe environments like classrooms, they may be distracted by their internal reactions to trauma reminders, making it difficult to pay attention to lessons or complete tasks.
Trauma can also affect both working memory (holding information in mind temporarily) and long-term memory formation. Hence, children may have trouble remembering instructions, learning new concepts or recalling information.
Dissociation
Dissociation is the brain’s way of protecting an individual during overwhelming experiences. When a child cannot physically escape a traumatic situation, their mind creates an escape route by disconnecting from the experience. This is often not a conscious response to the traumatic event. Dissociation may be described by children and youth as a sense of being detached from their bodies, being above or somewhere else in the room watching what is happening to them. Or they may feel as if they are in a dream-like, altered state, where the situation does not feel real or like it was happening to someone else instead of them.
For children who experience repeated trauma, dissociation can become a learned response. They may tend to dissociate more easily not just when reminded about traumatic events, but also in response to everyday stressors and they feel emotionally overwhelmed. This can affect their ability to be fully present in their daily activities and in life, which creates gaps in memory and a fractured sense of time, making it hard for children to remember events or understand the sequence of what happened. As a result, their development in many other areas is affected, such as in learning, emotional regulation, social interactions, as well as in their ability to make sound judgments or plans to achieve their goals.
Self-Concept
A child’s sense of who they are develops through their early relationships. When these relationships are unpredictable or harmful, it can affect how children see themselves and their future.
Children with complex trauma often develop what researchers call “negative working models”, or deeply held belief such as:=
Unfortunately, children who carry this view of themselves are more likely to blame themselves for negative experiences in their life, have a diminished sense of competency, and tend to carry the expectation that others will reject them. Such beliefs can also lead to choices that put children at further risk such as:
The Path Forward
While the effects of complex trauma can be serious and long-lasting, it is important to know that healing is possible. The healing journey begins when caring adults reach out to build healthy relationships with a child by:
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